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Mother
of Greatness
By Eve wolfe
I
had the pleasure of sitting down and
interveiwing an amazing woman whose name
is Elizabeth Selph. This women goes
through more in one day than anyone else I
know.
Eve
Wolfe: Mrs. Selph I understand that you
take care of a medically fragile child
Annie, right? How old is Annie and how
long has she been adopted from CYFD
(Childrens/Youth/Family
Department)?
Elizabeth
Selph: I have had Annie since she was
three weeks old. She will be turning three
in July.
EW:
Can you explain what it is like dealing
with a medically fragile child?
ES:
It is very tiring.
EW:
Really. Can explain in more detail?
ES:
Most of the time I wake up at 11:00 p.m.
and stay awake and play with Annie until
3:00 a.m. Then at this time I give Annie's
medicine through a G-Tube. Thrity minutes
later I feed her through her G-Tube,
also.
EW:
May I ask what a G-Tube is?
ES:
A G-Tube is a gastrio-intestinal feeding
tube. So the food goes directly from a
feeding pump to Annie's
stomach.
EW: What is the rest of your day like?
ES:
it is full of physical therapy and doctor
appoinments, some even in Albuquerque and
Denver.
EW: What are Annie's disabilities?
ES:
Annie is blind, deaf, and has problems
with gaining weight.
EW: When did you find out she is blind and
deaf?
ES:
When she was three months old we found out
that she is deaf. When she was four months
old we found out that she's
blind.
EW: When did you adopt her?
ES:
When she was eight months
old.
EW: So you adopted her knowing about her
disabilities. Most people wouldn't even
dare. What made you keep her?
ES:
Because we fell in love with her. Right
away we knew she was an angel god sent to
us.
EW: Mrs. Selph, do you have any other
kids?
ES:
Yes, I have four more two girls and two
boys.
EW: Are they your biological children?
ES:
No.
EW: Are they adopted?
ES:
Only one is adopted, the eldest,
Shawniece.
EW: Does she have any problems?
ES:
Yes, she has seizures that she has to take
medicine for and has learning
disabilities.
EW: Ok, So who are the other three who
live with you?
ES:
The girl is my sister's daughter,
Bethanie. The boys are my grandsons,
Brandon and Philip. Philip is on medicine
for seizures, too.
EW: So basically you have five kids and
three of them take medicine. You haven't
gone crazy yet?
ES:
No, not quite yet.
EW: So back to Annie. Do you know why she
has her disabilities?
ES:
Her biological mother did a lot of drugs
and had no prenatal
care.
EW: Wow, it must hurt to find out that
your baby was treated so badly.
ES:
Yes, Because I deal with the results of
her mother's stupidity.
EW: So do you have any help?
ES:
Yes, my husband and my sister
help.
EW: OK, so Mrs. Selph, thank you for your
time.
ES:
No problem, thank you.
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